At the same table,
different dreams.
Let’s talk together.
Choices, cities, first steps… You may not always agree. What matters is being able to move forward by hearing one another.
The decision belongs to the student.
The family provides support.
Not to find the right answer, but to understand one another.
AilePusulasıChoose the support you need today.
We are not measuring an answer. We are helping you find a conversation that can be useful.
I am a student
If you want to explain your reasons, compare two options, or make a support plan with your family.
Start in your own wordsI am a family member
If you want to talk openly about your concerns and the support you can offer without deciding for your child.
Open the support conversationI am a guidance teacher / counselor
If you want to build shared language in a family conversation and help the student arrive with concrete questions.
Use the worksheetChoose a topic. Start with one small step.
Instead of long lectures, questions and conversation cards you can use right away.
Support & listening
Understand what is needed before giving advice. Start the conversation with a small, open question.
Different views
Separate expectations from worries. Talk about your reasons without trying to persuade each other.
City & budget
Discuss a city choice not only by distance, but also through everyday life and realistic cost categories.
Official information check
Check what you hear against a current guide, program conditions, and official announcements.
Internship & first job
Clarify experience, expectations, and family support together during the first steps after university.
From conversation to a concrete plan.
Small tools that separate calculations, missing information, and support.
Sometimes the best support is to listen first.
Before suggesting a solution, ask what the other person needs. A small question can change the direction of a conversation.
Explore the listening guideDo you want a suggestion from me right now, or would you just like me to listen?
You do not need a perfect moment to talk.
Choose your topic
Pick one subject you would like to talk about today.
Listen to each other
Take turns asking the questions on the cards. Listen without trying to change the answer.
Choose one small step
You do not have to decide right away. Clarify the next step together.
This conversation belongs to you.
We do not ask for your name, school, or family story. Your choices stay only in the memory of the open page; they are not sent to a server.
You've opened the conversation. Would you like to explore yourself now?
AilePusulası makes room for a conversation with the family. Reflektif is a separate platform where you can explore interests, personality tendencies, and work values through structured questions and AI-supported conversation.
Moving on is optional. Your AilePusulası choices, budget, and plan are not sent to Reflektif.
The student link goes to Reflektif's Türkiye student area. Select your current language on the destination site; we do not promise Spanish/German support. A separate French Orientation area is also listed below.
Do not leave a question unanswered.
See all questions and answers →Is AilePusulası free, and do I need to sign up?
Yes, all AilePusulası guides, the conversation plan, budget comparison, and worksheet are free. No membership or move to another platform is required. Reflektif is a separate service with its own free and paid plans.
Explore Reflektif →How can a family support a child during the YKS preference period?
First listen to the student's reasons without interrupting and ask what kind of support they want. Do not confuse concern with a prohibition. Check current official requirements together; choose one information or support task. Ownership of the final decision remains with the student.
Read the guide →My child wants a degree I do not want them to choose; what can I do?
Talk separately about the student's reasons and your own concern. Ask whether the objection is based on information or an assumption; research a verifiable question. Do not use pressure, comparisons, or ultimatums. If there is a threat or safety risk, do not continue the conversation flow.
Read the guide →